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12 thoughtful valentine’s day gifts for her under £20

When it comes to Valentine’s Day gifts for her, it’s easy to feel like you need to splash out to make an impact – but the truth is, thoughtfulness means far more than a big price tag. Remember that iconic moment in Friends when Chandler gives Kathy a first edition of The Velveteen Rabbit? It wasn’t about the cost of the book; it was about the fact that he remembered it was her favourite and went out of his way to find something so personal and meaningful.

That’s the kind of gift that stays in someone’s heart – a gift that shows you’ve paid attention, listened, and cared enough to choose something that truly speaks to them. Thoughtful Valentine’s day gifts for her don’t have to be expensive: they don’t even have to cost a thing besides your time. It could be a small token tied to a shared memory, something that reflects her interests, or even a little surprise that says, “I know you.”

Here are some ideas to inspire you:

1. A modern day mixtape

Modern day mixtape - spotify keyring

Above: Spotify Playlist keyring by LushKeepSake on Etsy, £12.99

A personalised playlist made up of songs that mean something special to you both – whether it’s your favourite tunes, songs from a memorable holiday, or tracks that remind you of her – is a sweet gift for Valentine’s day. It shows that you’ve put time and thought into something, it’s highly personal and it’s a something for her to listen to when you’re not around. It’s the modern day equivalent of a mix tape: those collections of songs that we made before we had the internet, MP3 players, and streaming services, recorded onto a cassette tape and instilled with biro and love.

The budget option is to create the playlist on Spotify and add a handwritten card explaining why you chose each track. Or, get your playlist added to a keyring (above) that she can carry around with her wherever she goes.

2. A USB of memories

Heart shaped USB

Above: Heart-shaped USB by ALK Design Studio on Etsy, £13.94

Taking the mixtape concept one step further, with a USB you can mix up far more than just tunes. Fill it with a collection of your favourite photos together, short videos from special moments, shared favourite tunes and scanned keepsakes like ticket stubs or handwritten notes. You could include a video message telling her how much she means to you, or create a slideshow of your favourite memories set to music. Once it’s ready, pop the USB onto a keychain so she can carry it wherever she goes.

For that extra bit of aww, pick a heart-shaped USB—it’s like the cherry on top of an already thoughtful gift.

3. A personalised mini figure

Personalised mini figure

Above: Custom minifigure by Fab-bricks.com, £17

How fun is this? You can make a personalised mini Lego figure of her – of you – or even the two of you together! You can pick the hairstyles, outfits, and even little accessories that match her vibe. It’s such a quirky little keepsake and whether she pops it on her desk or keeps it somewhere special, it’s guaranteed to make her smile.

4. A thoughtful piece of jewellery

Sterling silver cubic zirconia heart necklace
Aboveheart necklace with Cubic Zirconia – £18

Jewellery is a timeless Valentine’s Day gift, but can be a bit generic unless you give it some thought. Pair the jewellery with something meaningful, like a printed photo of you together or a small memento tied to the piece (e.g., a note saying, “This bracelet reminds me of the beach where we first said ‘I love you.’”). Or include a thoughtful promise: for example, with a necklace, you could write, “Wear this to our next adventure together—it’s just the beginning.”

If she loves wearing rings but you have no idea what size she is, an adjustable ring might just be the way to go and these can be worn comfortably no matter her ring size. With lots of designs to choose from, it’s easy to pick on that reflects her style and things she likes: from chic geometrics to bling and sparkle, we’ve got something for just about every taste. Plus, we can add a gift box so it’s ready to go.

Claddagh ring - jewellery can be one of the best valentine's day gifts for her

Claddagh rings have a special meaning that is highly fitting for Valentine’s day. The heart represents love, the crown stands for loyalty, and the hands signify friendship. See our traditional (above) or modern day claddagh rings, from £16.

Click here for: All Sterling silver jewellery | All heart earrings + jewellery

5. A memory book

Large memory book

Above: A gorgeous memory book from BStorify on Amazon – £14.99

A memory book or scrapbook is one of the most personal gifts you can give. Fill it with photos of your favourite moments, handwritten notes, and little mementos like tickets or pressed flowers. It’s a heartfelt way to document what you love about your relationship and show her how much those memories mean to you. Plus, she’ll love flipping through it whenever she wants to relive those special times.

You don’t have to fill the book from cover to cover – it’s fine to leave space to keep adding momentums in the future.

6. A treasure hunt

Clue cards

Above: cute heart envelopes + cards from Mocraft on Amazon, £6.99

A treasure hunt is another way to keep Valentine’s day super-personal. You can grab some cute little envelopes with cards (like the ones linked above) or just make them yourself – super easy. Write out clues on cards that lead her from one spot to the next, like around the house or the garden (weather permitting) and along the way, you can leave little treats, like her favourite chocolate, a tiny gift, or even just a funny note to keep it fun. The clues could even be things she’ll need to enjoy the final surprise. If it’s a hotel stay, you could have clues leading her to her PJs, toothbrush, maybe her favourite skincare products, or even a cute travel bag with essentials like slippers or a cozy robe. You could also include something fun, like a bottle of wine or her go-to snacks for the room. Or, if you’d rather make the clues riddles but you’re stuck for inspo, ask Chat GPT for help!

And for the big finish? That’s totally up to you! The final clue could lead to her actual gift, or you could go full romantic with something like a set table for dinner, a bubble bath with candles, or even a cozy, softly lit bedroom sprinkled with rose petals.

7. IOU coupons

DIY coupon book

Above: A book of 30 blank coupons from Ellisen prints on Amazon – £8.39

There are plenty of ready-printed coupon books out there for standard stuff like massages and bubble baths, but customising your own makes this gift a lot more special. You can either print off your own coupons for free or pick up a blank IOU book and fill it in, like the one linked above.

Try to think of ideas that she’ll really love and really personalise them to the two of you – whether it’s a footrub, a takeaway, doing some outstanding DIY, her choice of movie (without complaints), breakfast in bed, joining in on her favourite activity or a games night (her way). If she’s always complaining that you’re on your phone, throw a tech detox night in there: no screens, just the two of you chatting, playing cards, or enjoying a candlelit dinner.

8. Lego roses

Lego roses

Above: box of two Lego roses, £10 on Amazon

Roses are a Valentine’s staple but they’re expensive at this time of year and they rarely survive longer than a week. Fortunately there’s a way to show her your love has a bit more longevity: with Lego roses! A box of two starts at £10 or you can get the traditional dozen roses (complete with pretty baby’s breath) for £41. Building them together is also a lovely activity for Valentine’s evening!

9. A chocolate board

Chocolate board

Above ‘Candygram’ chocolate board by Pretty Printed Store on Etsy – £4.99

A ‘Candygram’ chocolate board is a lot of fun to make and a great gift if she’s a sweet tooth. You can make your own from thick card or foamboard (try The Range or Boyes for this), or buy a pre-printed version online where you just need to add the chocolate. Making your own does allow you to fully customise the board with your own thoughtful messages and her favourite treats (and again, ChatGPT can be a lifesaver for ideas!)

10. Date night dice

Date night dice

Above:  Date night dice from Workshops by Paisan on Etsy – from £20/4 or buy individually.

Let the gods decide! This cute gift adds a little spontaneity to your Valentine’s day: with each roll suggesting a different activity, from a cozy night in to an exciting adventures. Of course, you can use these dice beyond Valentine’s day, keeping the romance alive and decide on things to do together. It’s also a great conversation starter for future plans and shows that you’re committed to spending the time together!

11. Bucket list journal

A Bucket list journal is one of the most thoughtful valentine's day gifts for her

Above: A bucket list journal from Oakdene designs on Etsy – from £13.60

A bucket list journal is the perfect gift if you’re the couple who loves dreaming about future adventures. Write down all the things you want to do together – big or small – and work towards ticking them off as a team. You don’t have to create the whole bucket list in advance – it’s a great activity for Valentine’s Night to work on together. Getting a customised journal printed does not cost a great deal and makes the gift even more thoughtful.

12. Movie night treat board

Movie night treat board

Make the perfect cozy Valentine’s evening with a DIY movie night treat board. Fill it with Valentine’s-themed movie night treats, using heart shaped cookie cutters to create the theme. Add popcorn, her favourite snacks and drinks, and a candle to set the mood. Add a printed “cinema ticket” (see these printables on Canva) with a film she’s been wanting to watch to make it extra special. It’s a simple yet thoughtful way to plan a night she’ll really love.

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